Hey Pat, I saw an exhibit of an open orb-web spider at the Smithsonian National Zoo last year and wondered the same thing. According to their website orb-spiders do not leave their webs and this is why they can be displayed in open exhibits: Madagascar Golden Orb Spider - National Zoo| FONZ
The males orb spider are tiny and live as semi-parasited on the female nest (she is app. 1000 times bigger). There might even be several males on a single female web. males may travel long distances by wind.