That’s a very interesting point regarding favourite females. Mbeli’s mother, Mouila, was Kibabu’s favourite female and Mbeli consequently enjoyed the benefits that came from being the offspring of the highest ranking female during her formative years. Whether that had any influence on her drive to secure her place as Kibali’s favourite female is debatable. Mbeli started with a lot of advantages. Initially it was just Mbeli and Johari introduced to Kibali (and the hand-raised female actively avoided him). By the time Frala was introduced to the newly formed troop, Mbeli was pregnant with what would become Kibali’s first offspring.
Frala was at a huge disadvantage in Kibabu’s troop; given Mouila, Kriba and their offspring formed the central clique. Frala was noted to have a brusque personality, which was theorised to be as a result of being excluded by the other females. She was abrupt with her offspring too, so it may have just been her personality. Frala was otherwise a mother-raised gorilla, with good social skills and Kibabu was noted to be protective of her following the births of her infants, ensuring the troop gave her space. Frala has fared even better in Kibali’s troop status wise - not the highest; not the lowest.
With regards to Kanzi’s ranking, she’s not yet reached the stage where she’s entered the hierarchy so to speak. From everything I’ve heard of her interactions (and the interactions of the troop in general), Otana doesn’t consider her one of his females, like he did Kimya, so she would certainly have ranked below her mother. Transferring out would surely motivate her to progress and make an effort with her new silverback.