One relatively simple analogy I have come up with for those less zoology-infused [if it's concise enough to understand, anyways...]...
The evolutionary tree with its lineage can be thought of similarly to a family tree with people. So say that you, the most recent member of your family tree represent the
Canis, or wolf lineage. For the sake of this analogy, you are a 'wolf'!
Your father then represents the common ancestor between you and dholes. Imagine, if you may... in his youth, your father had a fling with a girl, who he impregnated and ran away from. The child borne from that represents the dhole.

Then there is your grandfather, who represents the common ancestor between you and your half-sibling; wolves and dholes; and the African wild dog. As it were, your grandfather, much like your father, too had a fling in his youth, and was infatuated with a girl. Same story - The girl ended up impregnated, and he escaped the scene. The child borne from that fling, or your half-uncle, represents the African wild dog. So you and your half-sibling share part of the family tree with your shared half-uncle, but needless to say you and your half uncle are not as close as are even you and your half sibling.

Then there is your great-grandfather, who represents the common ancestor between you, your half-sibling, your half uncle; the wolves, dholes, and African wild dog - and the jackals. by pure coincidence, your great-grandfather, just like your grandfather after him, too had a fling.... ...ran away, girl had the baby. That child, your half-grand-uncle, represents the jackals. So - you, your half-sibling, and your half-uncle share part of the family tree with your half-grand-uncle...grand-half-uncle... but even your half-uncle looks like close family at this point.

And
then there is your greater-grandfather, who represents the common ancestor between you, your half-sibling, the half-uncle, and the grand half-uncle; the wolves, dholes, African wild dogs, jackals -
and, at last, the dire-wolf! At this point it looks for all the world to see like a genetic disposition - but your greater grandfather
too had a fling, and the rest is history. The child from
that then represents the dire-wolf. So, you, your half-sibling, your half-uncle and your half-grand-uncle all share part of the family tree with your half-great-grand-uncle... but at this point your family tree looks like the
Harem of the Court of King Caractacus... so whatever genetic similarity he has to you is a triviality if anything.

And then... one day some scientists knock on your door. They claim that they are from a company who likes cloning famous people - and as it were your half-great-grand-uncle was a famous, successful and intelligent person for his time. So one of your siblings agreed to having their genome sequenced, and they have your half-great-grand-uncle's genome too. They have found some physical traits of his that may or may not have made him as successful and intelligent as he was - and they have created an embryonic clone of your sibling with the genetic code altered so that these traits have been altered where deemed appropriate. Nine months later, the child is born.
Does the child have certain phenotypic similarities to that bodacious man? He probably does. But are the child and that man the same person? You would be hard-pressed to say so. And chances are that the man was successful in a time when time allowed, and his upbringing was much different from someone born in this century... that he wouldn't be accustomed to any of the same that the famous guy was. So chances are the child won't grow up to be him either.
And chances are the child won't even be on the cover of TIME.
And of course this is just an analogy and not really how evolution truly works.... in the dire wolf's case you are not working with five generations, but rather many thousands.... and where here you may be working with a quarter of a millennium... in the case of the dire wolf you are working with many tens of millennia!