Welcome. I am also a wild cat loving male, but I am most definitely not *ahem* twenty-three years old!
I think perhaps the best cat exhibit near you (though I realize it's the other side of the state) is Philadelphia Zoo. I have been there twice and they have a very nice big cat complex. If you ever make it out to my state of Arizona, Arizona-Sonora Desert Museum has the best mountain lion exhibit I have ever seen and Phoenix Zoo has the best cheetah exhibit I have ever seen. Of course the best zoo in the world for cats is Le Parc Des Felins in France, so you should start saving up for a trip across the ocean some day.