@forumbully: Excellent, another soulmate in terms of the lesser popular vertebrates...

Before I answer, could You please explain what this sentence of Yours meant:
"yet there are no exotics known that do better in private hands." TIA
I do know about the improvement in commercial breeding, catching techniques, transportation etc. in the last years. However, besides the still existing, unfortunately not-too-small numbers of species traded where commercial breeding and careful catching hasn't established itself yet (and might never, as the creature in question is hard if impossible to reproduce in captivity, still "abundant", the people in charge are unwilling/unable to switch to other methods etc. etc.), You shouldn't forget that these commercially produced species need food and create waste. And where do the breeders get the food and lead the waste back to?-right, the ocean or the other waters closeby. Luckily, this problem isn't as big as it is in aquacultures where fish are farmed in large numbers for human direct consumption, but it underlines the boundaries of such procedures. And don't forget various other problems, like spreading of neozoas, energy consumption etc.
BTW: If I compare the situation in terms of successful breeding in captivity of, say, the popular Sand tiger shark, the pet herbitcrabs or many grouper or barracudas (...) species, to that of one of the cetaceans mentioned above, the ratio in regard to the captive status seems to favour the marine mammal, not the fish or the crustaceans...
Of course catching cetaceans isn't easy-although the accounts of previous caughts seem to strech that some species, like the Beluga or the Indus River Dolphin, seem to be easier to catch than others. But it should be at least tried, instead of ignoring successes made 30 years ago.
"I'm not against dolphinaria, and situations like in nurnberg are ridiculous. but first it needs to be proven with existing populations that breeding and survival can be achieved on a steady basis. only then it should be allowed to expand captive populations through new wildcaughts." Glad to read that, and total agreement from my side-however, the same should also be true for all the other species kept in captivity, even the ones without a loud agenda behind them.
About the botos in Venezuela: I doubt that the ones currently kept there have been there since the 1970s. In terms of successful breeding: I know of at least one successful offspring that is still living and doing fine, but that's all I heard of so far.