1 - No. The 'fatting-up' is bizarre. The females do it immediately at the on-set of oestrus and it is over the shoulders and up the nape of the neck, and appears practically overnight. It is quite incredible that it can be laid down so quickly. Their metabolisms must be so fast, like their small ancestors and relatives. The fat appears to be purely for protection against the males teeth as the females can be violently dragged around during almost continuous mating for several days. Damage to her neck can be very dramatic. One of our males is 'worse' than the other, but female response from the boldest female inhibits the worst of that males aggression. We have had full observed copulations from both males with both females, on numerous occasions - sometime for just a day, sometimes up to five days. Gestation is short, forgive me for not remembering how long, a couple of weeks I think, then the female retires to her box to give birth, carries the young for about a month and then deposits them in the nest. We have seen early stages of heavy pouches indicating developing young; but around that period the females have either come back into oestrus or nothing has developed further. Every combination has been tried. Earlier this spring we had both females mated at the same time with very strong signs, but again it all went quiet.
2 - yes, both sexes do exactly this - harvesting vegetation and carrying it back to the nest, boxes indoors and sometimes a hollow or tucked away spot outside.