It's okay, take your time! Everyone in this thread started somewhere some time, so I'm sure all of us understand. I think the biggest thing to keep in mind is that it's okay to not identify a bird if you didn't see it that well - birds of prey and gulls in Europe are hard if you don't know what to look for, so it's okay if you didn't see enough details to be sure about your sighting - just let it go! Eventually, as you'll get better and better in identification, you'll know exactly what to look for and you'll find it a lot easier to know when to attempt identifying birds and when not to. A good bird guide can help with this, if you don't already own one. I definitely recommend Collins Bird Guide, either the book or the app - it's probably the most detailed (affordable) bird book ever written.Sharm El Sheikh, Egypt.
So guys, I'm in a conflict with two animals which I'm hating because I can't identify them.
One is a falcon which I identified for first as a Pallid harrier, then as a Eurasian marsh harrier (which for now is cancelled from the list, but the situation probably will change.This is the last animal I eliminate from my checklists), and now as a Montagu's harrier, the second a gull which maybe was a Gray-headed gull (a rarity here in Italy!).
I think I'll be able to give you news about the bird checklist (60 species) during the next days.
Sorry for the drawback, but I'm soooo bad at identifiyng birds.
Grey-headed gull is an African bird, and a very, very rare vagrant in Italy, with to my knowledge only a handful of records (3?) in Italy. I'd be surprised if one has been seen in the entirety of Europe this year already, and to my knowledge they haven't been seen in Italy (or indeed the rest of Europe) since December of 2015. That's not to say that you didn't see one - there's a few stories around of beginning birders finding amazing stuff in their first few months of birding, but it should give some perspective as to how rare they actually are. Have you looked at pictures of fairly similar black-headed gulls or Mediterranean gulls, and especially those of birds in transitioning plumage? Those are, in my opinion, much more likely opinions - though of course I can't know what you saw.